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Muslim Views on
Death
It is important to keep in mind that the following
information may not apply to all Bosnian people; some refugees are
not Muslims or have adopted different customs.
· When treating a Bosnian
refugee, one should be aware that many Bosnians have suffered from
war injuries.
· Muslims find it unacceptable
to prolong one’s life by machinery unless it is obvious that the
individual will be able to lead a satisfactory life.
· An individual must
confess his or her sins before death, with the family present.
· Death is not the end, it is an
opening to a higher form of life. If a person is unable to die at
home, it is typical that many visitors will come to the hospital.
Holy water will be given to the individual, while reading the Quar’an
when he or she is close to death. Preceding death, the family will
wash the body and position the body towards Mecca. Although in the
health care facility it is adequate to turn the person’s face to
the right.
· Clothes of the deceased are to
be removed by the members of the same sex, and then the body is to
be covered by a sheet. Only relatives and friends may touch the
body
· Burial is required and
cremation is not permitted. The delay of an autopsy may upset the
family, because the longer the body is left without burial the
more chance the body has for physical harm..
· Females are discouraged from
attending burials, and members of the immediate family may fast
until the funeral, showing respect to the deceased.
· Organ donation is considered
acceptable..
. Blood and blood products are
acceptable.
(MVRC)
Bosnian Muslim Remains in Coffins
Remains of 87 Bosnian Muslim victims buried in the Laniste 1 mass
grave. Relatives return to identify the bodies although the
clothes found in the grave are displayed for those unable to view
the coffins.
Most Bosnian refugees have lost family members
and friends due to the war. While in Bosnia, refugees did
not attend many funerals, but did see many people die in front of
their eyes. Therefore, it is important to understand that
their previous experiences have the ability to emotionally drain
and change them. Many refugees do not care to attend a
funeral and see another friend, American or Bosnian, lying in a
casket. For example, recently a Bosnian school teacher
entered the principal's office in tears. She was apologizing
for not having the strength to attend a fellow teacher's funeral
the day before. She explained that she simply could
not bear another funeral. Many Bosnians, similar to this
school teacher, are reluctant to attend such services, or take
part in the processes surrounding another's death (interview with
Ralph Leo Jr.).
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